INDIA

THE STREETS

Imagine the most remote recesses of a tropical country and place a large village there of over one million people. I say village, because, although there are cars, electricity (sometimes there’s electricity) and evidence of technology, most people are living a very difficult life. Traveling the streets I felt like a piece crashing around in a kaleidoscope. The streets pit all manner of life and machine together in all directions, as they are shared by warthogs, dogs, donkeys, horses, bullocks, three-wheeled auto-rickshaws, cabs, trucks, bicycles, scooters--some with entire families on board!, people pulling wagons, and people carrying everything from bananas to flowers on their heads. If you’re in a moving vehicle you stay much calmer by not looking ahead.  Despite the chaos and lack of any regard for lanes, speed or right-of-way, we never saw an accident. We did see two badly smashed buses on the road back from Fatehpur Sikri and wondered about the care given to the injured passengers.  Not only are there no posted speed limits or signs directing traffic (with the exception of Delhi) there is no enforcement mechanism in evidence. Road rage is an unknown concept. When one vehicle cut another off, people didn’t seem upset. They calmly slowed down and looked for a better space to pass.
Actually, Coimbatore did have one traffic cop directing traffic from a high perch in the center of a major intersection. It was clear he was being ignored utterly, though. The platform he stood in was a large Coke can, so I disrespectfully dubbed him "Cop in a Coke."

It’s a thrill to take a ride in the little three-wheeled auto-rickshaws – a cheap and exciting open-air ride! A 15-minute cross-town ride is less than a US dollar.

A most disturbing aspect of the traffic for me was the sound. Everyone with a horn honks constantly to alert others to their whereabouts! If you’re not following lanes or passing rules it’s the next best thing! But I had forgotten to bring earplugs and I spent many sleepless nights due to the incessant honking outside the hotel window.

 

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There are no sidewalks. Where the road ends there is dirt, often deep, a silty sand that swallows up your foot. No way to keep feet clean! Even the walkway outside of stores was dirt in most cases. The occasional store had some pavement in front.

 

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Roadside vendors sell all manner of merchandise, from betel nut preparations to sweet coconuts. One of our drivers insisted upon having us taste the coconut drink. The coconut is green—cut off the top and stick a straw inside and you have a drink. I didn’t find it very tasty. Tim, as usual, finished his. At first, I thought, "hey, what are all these mangers for?" Then, duh, it dawned on me that, just as there are filling stations for cars, there are hay stations for the bullocks, donkeys and horses. Generally a woman was posted at these hay stations.


ANIMALS

The bullocks are the sweetest-faced animals and they pull enormous loads. Just before our arrival the Tamils celebrated Pongol, the harvest festival during which the bullock gets a bath and a paint job: all bullocks had their horns painted two different colors. The cart also is painted in the matching two-toned look. Some of the bullocks had bells added to the ends of their horns.

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Bullock on Coimbatore Street.jpg (24153 bytes) Dogs are everywhere and completely ignored, in contrast to their bovine cousins. They are almost uniformly medium-sized and have the coat of a yellow lab. Rather than roaming in menacing packs, they all seemed like sad, sickly loners. I did read in the Hindu Times that more prosperous people are beginning to keep dogs and cats as pets. It’s still very unusual, though. Due to the general poverty, animals are maintained if there is an economic benefit.
 

PEOPLE

Coimbatore is a place that rarely sees westerners and we got a response like a circus freak show. Occasionally people asked us where we came from. One fellow guessed that we were German.

 

I can probably count on one hand the number of times I saw a woman in western attire and it was wonderful to see them so colorful in their saris and chudidhars. (Both are shown in the photo)

They’re all beautifully groomed: perfect pigtail braids on the schoolgirls, a long black braid on younger women and a gray bun for the older women. It didn’t matter if they were doing farm work or herding animals or walking to market: their clothing was beautiful and colorful and imaginatively combined in contrasting or matching pieces. The end of the sari was often used to drape the head in the north, but we rarely saw this done in the south.

 

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Women in field.jpg (28567 bytes) Every kind of textile is worn, from silk to cotton, print to solid, sheer to opaque. The women and their clothing were the beautiful features in what could otherwise be a bleak landscape. Even the poorest of women added a range of hues, from subtle to saturated. One of my favorite visual memories is of the women in bright saris dotting the earth where they were tying sheaves.
 

The men in the street were dull, by comparison.  In the south, many men pair the traditional sarong or "dhoti" with a western shirt—not exactly chic, and seemingly schizophrenic since the dhoti (and sari) is unstitched, which devout Hindus believe to be more "pure," while stitched clothing can never be so. (The professors at the college Tim met with wore typically western attire--shirts and slacks, sometimes with sandals and sometimes with loafers or other typical western shoes.)  In the north, the men’s dress was more interesting because they wore more clothing: layers of kurta (a long shirt), vests and jackets conformed to the wearer’s body due to long residence there. Often, clothes that were quite worn still looked dignified. Hats were varied, sometimes taking the form of cloth wrapped around the head. In another example of sartorial schizophrenia, I was struck by the northern women in their burqa (the wearable tent for Muslim women with a screen for peering out); invariably the man with her was in the most modern and costly western clothing!

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We were perplexed by some requests.  For example: Tim gave a talk to the Indian Computer Society and afterward some students asked him if he could come and give a talk at their college (a different one from PSG). Tim told them he was leaving the next day and they asked, "morning or afternoon?"  Looking back, I guessed it was lack of experience with travel that provided the requestor with the temerity to ask for a speech just before a dash to the airport.

Communicating with the men was sometimes difficult for all of us.  Sometimes they’d show up late or promise something and forget it. We weren't sure why there was such confusion, but we  learned to avoid disappointment by not expecting to happen what they said they would do, so we could be doubly delighted when it did happen. They certainly demonstrated a great generosity of spirit that made the confusion forgivable.  The women, on the other hand, were invariably considerate, generous and kind, but in a comfortable way, not in an effusive way. However, most interactions were with the men. Tim’s time was entirely consumed by their meetings and, with one brief exception (a quick tour of Coimbatore when we arrived), they never shared a meal with him or offered to show him any sights.  I guess it is likely that this is just not done by the men, but is an expectation only of women.


THOUGHTS ON CULTURE

The layering of new on old explains the fascinating juxtapositions: the bullock and car in the street, the pairing of the traditional sarong or "dhoti" with a western shirt by the men, daily religious observances like the wearing of ashes and sandalwood stripes on the forehead or prayers in a silk store. Ancient practices are kept current while the new is added. Religion is integral to daily life. We walked into a store and heard an "OM" kind of Hindu prayer chanted. While we were upstairs in the same store, looking at bedspreads, an enormous puff of incense filled the entire room, making it difficult to see, much less breathe. While checking out at the same store, patrons can refresh their forehead stripes of ashes or sandalwood; small tins are set out on the counter. (The Hindu forehead stripes, or Tikka, are ubiquitous in south India and absent in the north.) And the assembly where Tim spoke to the student body began with a beautifully sung Hindu prayer.

One gesture common to south Indians is the bobbing of the head. We never really understood the significance of this head movement, but it seemed positive in nature, very much like a nod of agreement to me (my own cultural bias is my only basis for this supposition), in that the people of south India are a highly agreeable group of people.

The popular music can be very homogeneous. I can’t recall hearing any female singer  of the popular music who didn’t sound like a tiny nasal mouse. The popular music is "cine" music—most of the movies are musicals and the music from these movies is what people like to hear on radio and on their equivalent of MTV. Most of the MTV-like videos appeared to be duets between male and female. Usually they sang separately and I don't recall use of any harmony.  I did bring home some good Tamil music on tape which I found more exciting:  less produced and more raw sounding.  

One unique aspect that I greatly appreciated: few people smoke, unlike other places in Asia.

BUREAUCRACY

If it can be made to be difficult, it will. Everything is as complicated as possible.   Tickets must be reconfirmed at the town hall 48 hours before departure so you can be sure your place on the flight won’t be given away. The visa process was convoluted. We got our passports back only 24 hours before we departed!  At the airport there are two queues for security: X-ray the carry-on first and then X-ray the checked bags but neither are checked in until later (NONSENSE!).  There are other assorted queues for reasons I cannot figure and the herding is constant. By the time we were about to leave the Delhi airport I was frustrated.  In fact, the combination of a week's sleep deprivation, a virus and a full  22- hour day of touring had me in tears.  But I walked into the bathroom and the attendant (there's a lady posted  in the bathrooms who hands out tissue) noticed my distress and approached making universal "there, there" sounds.  She gave me a warm hug to comfort me.  How could I be mad at India after that? All was forgiven.


BURDENS 

Judging from a surprising newspaper article written on proper hiring practices by a male HR manager, India is several years behind the US in discriminatory practices based upon sex. Clearly, women are still oppressed in many ways. An Indian film-maker wanted to make a film depicting Hindu practices with respect to widows, among other issues. Her set was trashed by fanatics and the censors (all movie scripts are scoured by a government authority before a movie ever gets made) demanded revisions.

Also oppressed are the darkest-skinned people, it seemed to me. Was it coincidence that the people doing the most menial, hard labor—the untouchables—were the darkest?

Poor children are often seen at work herding or begging instead of going to school. It was heartening to see large groups of school children at the historic sites we visited in Agra; there is a growing, but still small, middle class.


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TEXTILES

Mrs. Thilagavati, a textile instructor, took me on a tour of the textile department at PSG where I got to see a computer jacquard loom operate. I also got to see a demo of the computer program they developed on site that allows students to design a fabric. Looked like so much fun, I wanted to move the school back here so I could attend. She also took me to a textile factory just outside of town.  As we approached the building I saw a sea of sandals. The employees take their shoes off to enter. In the entry hall there was a sea of purses. We met the owner in his upstairs office and he took us on a tour where I saw every part of the primarily manual process, from pattern-making to cutting to sewing and pressing and packaging. In the sewing room there were at least 50 or 60 young women in beautiful saris hard at work over their machines. The owner lamented the lack of a button-machine with an automatic feed. Better for the employee, I thought, who could move around more with the manual-feed machine. The owner also expressed concern about competing with China, which has no limitations on worker hours (14 hour days are normal there), while India does have labor laws.

Boys in kurtas at Taj.jpg (29423 bytes) Fabric stores abound, but the one store to see is Kumaran silks. It is lovely, with marble floors & walls (marble is used everywhere) and beautifully stocked shelves. Sales staff aplenty, also. Five floors have everything from men’s clothing to saris to bedspreads and fabric by the yard. I am now the proud owner of a cotton sari, and got a chudidhar to give as a gift. Tim has a comfortable kurta pajama. Fabric quality was high. To explain the clothing: a chudidhar is a tunic with pajama pants. It is called a salwar kameese by the northern Indians. I noted that the pant is cut very wide at the waist, with a drawstring. I imagine 'maternity wear' is an unusual concept outside of western cultures. The kurta pajama looks like a pair of pajamas. (We English speakers borrowed the word pajama.) The shirt is long, collarless and very plain.  The boys pictured at the Taj Mahal are wearing kurta pajamas.
 

FOOD

We love Indian food. Even the airlines have great meals, and a delicious, hot meal is served on the shortest flights. The train even served an edible meal!  And we enjoyed the Annalakshmi restaurant in Coimbatore. A delicious feast for under $10, with occasional electricity dropouts to make us all the more appreciative. The hummus, and everything we ate, at the Taj Palace in Delhi was the best we’ve ever had!

 

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POWER

Power failures are so frequent they get no attention. Wiley said that at one point when the power failed and the computer projector went off, Tim didn’t miss a beat but went over to the window and opened the curtain to shed light on the blackboard. It was unnerving to lose power during an elevator ride in our hotel. The car stopped and even after the lights went back on inside, the alarm button appeared to do nothing (I asked at the desk and they had not heard anything). Fortunately, it was only a five-minute scare.

PSG

Oh yes, the purpose of the trip was to sign a distance learning agreement for Masters in Software Development classes. A success for Tim: the agreement was signed, after a discussion with the owner, and Tim had several sessions with the faculty to train them on the Colloquy (web-utility he built). Tim spoke to the students of PSG --and it looked like all of them attended!-- on trends in information technology. It was quite a production, with a significant effort to carry it off. Two students, sitting at a desk just out of view of the students, spoke into microphones to introduce each segment of the program. After the beautifully sung Hindu prayer, mentioned earlier, there were introductions and then Tim spoke. The students had excellent questions for him. Tim and I were presented with bouquets and a small statuette of the god of creation, Nataraj. Everyone was invited to tea (delicious spice masala)  in the cafeteria afterward.

 

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TOURIST STUFF

The train ride to Agra from Delhi seemed slow.  I couldn't tell how slow because the windows were so fogged I couldn't see outside.  We guessed that there were crops growing outside and later found that it was wheat.  (This is the time of year when wheat and mustard are grown.  In the fall, lentils are grown.)  The trains are somewhat old and scratchy music is played constantly.   They run pretty close to schedule; we did have a hair-raising 15-minute delay coming back, but we arrived in time for our flight

I would ordinarily avoid mausoleums, but we did see the Taj Mahal, which is amazing, as billed. All the designs are inlaid semi-precious stones. Beautiful. As Tagore said, "One solitary tear on the cheek of time." I watched the life around the tourist attraction.  The groundskeepers used a lawn mower unusual from my perspective: a bullock pulling mowing blades.  A group of security guards appeared to be sitting and playing a card game, near the exit.  A herd of black cattle waded in the river behind the Taj.  And every nation seems to be represented within the human river of visitors. 

 


We visited Agra fort, built in 1565 of red sandstone by the Moghul emporer Akba, really a city within a city.  We visited a ghost city, called Fatehpur Sikri, which was abandoned after only 15 years of use.  The same emporer, Akbar, built this one to relocate the capital of the Mughal empire, but the water supply ran out and everyone left.  The reason he built on this unsuitable site?  He had been without a male heir and the Shaikh Salim Chishti at Fatehpur Sikri had blessed him and, lo and behold, along came a son.  Thus, a city was also born the following year to honor the occasion.  We were taken to the white marble tomb of that Shaikh on this site, where childless women now make pilgrimages.  I was offered a prayer thread by a "holy" man, but since I'm not seeking fecundity, turned it down. The sites were interesting but the most fascinating thing was seeing all the people. This was our one day in northern India and there was quite a difference between the cultures of the north and the south. It was only here we saw a group of white-robed Jains, walking carefully in a line to avoid stepping on living things.  They wore cloth over their mouths to avoid ingesting innocent air-life.

And we saw a Sadhu, or a priest on a spiritual search, outside of the fort. Our guide said he had to be a fake: if he were really on a spiritual search he would be in the mountains, not begging from tourists. And the north is full of Sikhs, often beautifully attired with their turbans and long beards. Sikhism combines Hindu and Muslim traditions, renouncing idol worship and castes.  The Sikhs fought persecution by the Moghuls and with this struggle began the introduction of a military aura to the sect.  Present-day Sikhs all carry a dagger, but it is merely a tiny symbol, not a real weapon.

The trip was exhausting, with 20 hours of flight time and 20 hours of layover each way, and I came back pretty sick. But I will remember the kind people, the vibrant colors, the array of textiles and the many paradoxes that seem to make up India.

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